I use relationships, research and writing to reach these goals. Sometimes, I write manuscripts for professional journals. At other times, I write for general interest. I give input or guidance to students in healing professions such as psychology and social work. I have also contributed to audio-visuals and journalists writing about matters of mental health. Actively experiencing the personhood of others, hearing their critical questioning of me and their relationships, together with that which has been learned intellectually, provides a powerful environment for mutual growth.
The Courage to Grow: Lisa’s Story, describes a journey lived through a 24-year therapeutic relationship with Lisa, a woman the author first met in a correctional facility as a counsellor. The book is the result of the author’s uncomfortable realisation that she formed part of a society that grows crime, albeit largely unknowingly. Government, supported by society at large, attempts to contain crime through highly publicised but reactive measures under the banner ‘war on crime’, which focuses on the ‘offender’ as the cause of crime and the sole element to be rehabilitated. The author suggests that, for rehabilitation to be effective, all elements of crime must be addressed.
Antisocial behaviour terrifies most, if not all, human beings. This fear triggers various, previously learned ways of trying to defend against it, resulting in disrespect in relationships, and wars between countries. On a professional level, it has given rise to resources such as the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual to prevent this behaviour. This book uses case studies, client narratives and socio-political examples to show that, depending on how they are used, these different forms of defence can sustain and fuel antisocial and prosocial behaviour.
A non-fiction book describing the therapeutic relationship between myself and a ‘career criminal’ whom I call Eddie, primarily within a prison setting. This book shows how disrespect, or ‘being dis’ed’ as it is more commonly termed, is core to the commission of crimes and a culture of violation in relationships between individuals, as well as socio-politically and institutionally. The book demonstrates that reacting to disrespect in defensive, often violational ways is common to all of us, including therapists. Like inmates, therapists and institutions are often unaware of their own contribution to violation.
Professor Don Foster, head of the department of psychology at the University of Cape Town, wrote: “It is highly regarded and essential reading for those interested in understanding crime and issues pertaining to human rights. It challenges the inhumanity of prisons.” Marcus-Mendoza, Associate Professor of Human Relations and Women’s Studies and former prison psychologist noted: “…she makes an important contribution in this field … Her research is on what I believe to be the cutting edge of the field.”
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